Attitude Reflects Leadership
This scene from Remember the Titans shows the need for leaders to lead by demonstrating the attitude of serving their team and looking out for the members best interests.
This scene from Remember the Titans shows the need for leaders to lead by demonstrating the attitude of serving their team and looking out for the members best interests.
Motivational Leadership
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Time: | 02:30-03:30 p.m. |
Event: | Texas Parole Officer Supervisor Training |
Topic: | Motivational Leadership |
Sponsor: | Texas Board of Pardons and Paroles |
Location: | Hunstville, TX |
Public: | Private |
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Hear Me Roar, Watch Me Whimper: Dealing with Life’s Stress
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Time: | 9:30 a.m. |
Event: | Tyler County Hospital Women's Health Conference |
Topic: | Hear Me Roar, Watch Me Whimper: Dealing with Life's Stress |
Sponsor: | Tyler County Hospital Foundation |
Venue: | Woodville United Methodist Church |
Location: | 508 W Bluff St. Woodville, TX 75979 |
Public: | Public |
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Question:
What stops you from stepping out?
How has this insight given you inspiration to act?
What will you do this week to make a change and step into all God has for you?
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All I wanted to do was make a difference. Help others live a better life. One filled with hope, encouragement, and inspiration. One of assurance: that they are, or at least can easily become, all they were meant to be. I want to help them find their greater purpose for living, but…
I got into a little trouble. I’ll tell more about that after sharing how I got to that fateful day.
At every event, no matter the topic I present, people repeatedly said–and still do to this day–that they have a desire to make a difference as well. Somewhere, in some capacity, and even with little knowledge or resources, they want to help others too. Which always fuels my desire for what I do.
I want to help them make their mark. And I want to help you make yours.
I expressed my passion by writing, first for friends, church members, then newsletters, and finally articles and books. I increased my involvement in training, teaching, and speaking for audiences that were growing in size.
Eventually, expenses started piling up and a little income trickled in. That’s when I stumbled into business with a greater intent and higher good. Although my educational degree is more in line with social and spiritual training, I grew up with a father who was an entrepreneurial small-businessman. Therefore, I knew something about business.
I did my best to honestly keep track of all transactions involving money. Even sought a C.P.A. to make sure I was doing it right. But then that fateful day came.
A huge packet from the I.R.S. arrived in my mailbox.
I freaked. That’s putting it mildly. I panicked. Couldn’t breathe. And had thoughts of asylum in South America. A fugitive in my native land. I felt so ashamed. Guilty for no apparent reason.
You see, I was being audited!
Me? The one who only wanted to do good, and help people.
And by the way had always kept immaculate records of everything I did, more on the overkill end than the slacker side of detailed records. I wasn’t trying to dupe anyone, not even the government. So, why me?
I’ll tell you why in a minute.
If you’re like me and want to help others and have expenses and income—no matter how big or small—you might need to know how to do a few things to protect yourself.
Don’t worry. I’ll help you and guide you through the steps I went through to make my life and service to others pain free—at least as it relates to the I.R.S., business stuff, and growing a ministry-business, or a business with purpose.
First of all, when that packet landed in my hands and I was able to catch a breath, I skedaddled my stunned self to the C.P.A.’s office. I needed advice and NOW!
Hence my smarter self began learning. The C.P.A. said, “Freelance speakers and/or writers are a group that is frequently audited.” Yes, that’s the reason I was picked on. I hadn’t done anything wrong and didn’t need to run hide in another country or anything. He also told me what to do to potentially call off this heat and ease my mind. And if you’ll do these same things it will not only keep you safeguarded, but will also help to build and grow your impact. At the least it will give you peace of mind. And that’s a huge asset for anyone!
Keep Detailed Information
I had to go back more than five years to the records, receipts, etc. Very important to keep details about each transaction so you’ll know what you did as well as prove to anyone else what you did.
Understand Business Proof
You know your intent in your ministry-business, but no one else does unless you tell them. The C.P.A. told me it was my job to prove my intent of conducting business. No matter what your greater good or purpose is, you must prove your business intent. Remember exchanges of money means business.
Open a Dedicated Banking Account
The business funds are kept separate from personal funds. Not only does this aid in keeping better records of transactions, but it also is more proof that my effort is a business.
Create A Business Plan
For further proof of your business intent–and quite possibly the best proof, you’ll need a business plan. It’s a simple document detailing your plan for your service and business. This same document when completed helps you share your business idea and intent with others who want to know more about what you are doing. People who’ll gain understanding from your plan are partners, volunteers, investors, bankers and obviously the I.R.S. among other possibilities. I also felt the plan deliver insight into my soul, and inspiration to my work.
Grow in Influence to Impact More Change
A growing business increases its viability. It gains more influence, more impact, more proof of business, and sometimes more money to reinvest in helping others. It’s a simple equation: Do more in order to do more.
These keys to prepare you and give you peace of mind will get you started on your journey to having a great impact of helping others. You’ll become more aligned with who you want to be and were meant to be. Don’t forget your Business Plan Fun Sheet
Let us sing God’s praises in anticipation of things to come.
If life was a trip we’d plan it accordingly. We’d decide how much time was allotted for the work of travel, for the spiritual renewal of sleep, for the fellowship of dining, for the play of sightseeing, and so on. But why don’t we do a better job at planning our life: the time spent for work, renewal, fellowship, and play?
Maybe we think we are an infinite resource of energy and that we have all the time in the world. But we aren’t, and we don’t.
Earlier, I listened to a few school teachers state they had so much work required of them that 50 hours a week plus all day Saturday was needed to teach a class of kids. Their stress level was extremely high. The tears and pain of not having time for their family, their spouse, or themselves was depressing. They felt their life was completely out of control.
And they’re not alone. Are they?
Everyone seems to want a piece of us. No one seems to understand we are only one person with limited resources. (And sometimes we don’t recognize that ourselves.) But if we aren’t proactive in planning our lives, everyone and everything else will plan our time for their own advancement.
We must take action and regain control of our calendars now, or we’ll fall off our rocker.
Let’s go back to the beginning of our why. Why we do what we are doing. Find clarity about what’s important and what our calendar should actually look like.
If you’re like me, you’re guilty of wasting time. I’m always falling for the trap of clearing the red dots on the top right of all those apps on my iPhone. My one minute to check for something important turns into a drain. Two or three hours later and I’m late to an appointment I had scheduled.
I need a budget for my time. It’s works for money, so why not for our most important resource: time. I’ll have to fight for it, it’s not just going to be given to me or just happen out of nothing. It will mean disciplining myself to schedule appointments and meet those appointments.
I hate to let others down by missing appointments or poor planning. I don’t want others to think less of me. With every appointment on my calendar I set no less than 2 alarms to remind me. I try to make my appointments a high priority. So why not schedule appointments for the things that are most important to me? An appointment is an appointment even if it is scheduled with myself.
We have different priorities and areas of life we want to be better at. I can’t tell what those are for you, but for me they are:
But when I get sick, the priorities on the bottom of the list fall off first. The sicker I am the more stuff drops off. And I’ve been sick enough to have the whole list mean absolutely nothing. At that time I had only one pursuit, beg God to help me feel better. I did everything I could think of to take care of myself. Therefore, I learned that in order to take care of my priorities, I must take care of myself first. I try to:
Here’s the crux: if you’re always working, always stressed, always answering to what others think your life ought to look like, you’re going to end up sick. Stress causes strokes, heart attacks, diabetes, weight gain, depression, self-loathing, and more.
As women, we know our stress steals our best for our family. And as men, who think they must suck it up and deal with it to provide for their family, stress steals their health and ability to provide. No one can be of any real value by killing themselves with stress.
So let’s take action and get a handle on budgeting our calendar.
I’ve heard the parable of putting the big, most important stuff in my life first. Then moving down through the lesser things until I reach the bottom and add the smallest more insignificant things last. That’s my method of planning my time and scheduling my calendar. Below are the steps.
Those are the steps I use to try to order my life, clear some space, schedule my calendar, and regain control of my time. I’m not great at it yet, but I am learning to be stress free.
Question: Are you good at making the best use of your time? Have any tips we can glean from you? How do you deal with stress? You can leave a comment by clicking here.
A million choices stare us in the face everyday, whether it’s to order a cheese burger with tots or a chicken & kale quinoa bowl, or deciding whether to make a bold move in our career or relationships. We all have many decisions to make.
Big choices. Little choices. Lots of insignificant choices. All of which pile up to make a mountain range of decisions by the time we die and dirt is thrown over us with some nice words. And all those choices shape us somewhat into who we are and who we are becoming.
So how do you know you’re making the right decisions? How do you know what’s right for you? And help me out, what’s your decision making process?
Some really struggle with making clear decisions. Ever rode in a car with a group of hungry people none of which can decide where they would like to stop and eat? (Picture my family here. No kidding, like vultures saying to each other, “Whatcha want to do?” “I don’t know, whatcha want to do?”) Not being able to make decisions can be frustrating.
The Jungle Book vulture’s right. There are better ways to make decisions. I’m not a professional decision maker and my husband might would tell you I’m the worst. Why I can have that same car conversation with no one else in the car but me. But I’m trying to make better decisions and here’s a few tips that I tell myself:
There you go. A few tips to help you make decisions faster and with more confidence. So when hunger wins in the car of life, you won’t have to devour the seat cushions due to lack of decision making. Not making decisions is often making bad decisions. No matter what you’re working on at the moment, every decision, big or small, that you make on a daily basis really makes a difference. They matter. Any one of them can forever change your life.
Question: Are a strong decision maker or have learned to make good decisions? Any tips or strategy you use that you could share? Which statement will strengthen your decision making ability? You can leave a comment by clicking here.
No matter whether you’re a leader, entrepreneur, parent or financier, worry isn’t productive or beneficial.
Actually, fretting is quite detrimental to our efficiency and health. It’s a trap that stalls us and keeps us from fulfilling our potential and divine calling. It becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy as negativity dominates and impedes success: closing of deals, mentoring, goal setting, or gaining financial stability.
So, how can we beat worry and become a winning warrior?
A warrior fights. He uses strategy, smarts, and obedience to complete his master’s mission. He gives all his strength and effort in order to succeed. In complete faith of the master’s plan, he obeys and leaves the battle results to his master. Worry has no place in a warrior.
People of faith also have a mission and a plan with no place for worry’s trap. We are forbidden from being restless, filled with anxiety and confusion. Jesus said, “So do not worry, saying ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?'” (Matt. 6:31). We simply must not worry about these things because he has plans for us (Jer. 29:11).
To beat worry, it’s critical to know the secret of living in peace in the midst of hectic work and life demands. And that secret is to keep obeying and fighting toward the good we know and trust God to work out the rest. The results aren’t really in our control anyway. We must trust God and have faith in his plan. To equip the warrior in you for the battles to come, I’ve curated some peace-giving, faith-instilling, and courage-infused words.
Question: What keeps you from being anxious? How do you conquer worrying? You can leave a comment by clicking here.
Rooted in Him
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Time: | 7:00 p.m. |
Event: | Ladies Fall Celebration |
Topic: | Rooted in Him |
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North Woods Baptist Church 281-443-2002 |
Venue: |
North Woods Baptist Church 281-443-2002 |
Location: | 5803 Treschwig Road Spring, TX 77373 |
Public: | Public |
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