These three steps will give you a new husband within the week.
Okay, so that might not be a promise I can keep. But chances are very high that you will have a better relationship with your husband if you daily practice these things. Everyone wants to know the short way to better relationship. Follow these keys to a man’s heart and your husband will take notice.
Last week I shared some unofficial statistics about prayer that spurred this post. Prayer for Marriage topped the list of felt needs. It’s no big surprise that marriage, the most unifying human relationship with the greatest opportunity of rift, causes us to seek God’s help.
Prayer makes a difference in our relationships.
After exercising the suggestions from Marriage Tops Secret Prayer List, try these steps to a new husband.
3 Steps to a New Husband
- Change your prayer. Stop praying about your husband and how you need/want him to be different. Rather, learn to pray for him according to what the Bible says. See Stop Praying About Your Husband: How to Pray For Him!
- Pray to see specific things that would make your husband feel valued and respected. We have different triggers. Scratching his back may make one man feel valued, but do nothing of another.
2. Create a Respect List.
Make a list of things you can do to show respect for your husband. You may have to set aside time to create one, but keep it somewhere you can continue to add to it on the fly.
3. Respect with words and actions.
Begin telling him daily at least one thing from your list that you respect him for. Show him respect with your body language. No angry faces, snarly smirks, or inappropriate eyebrow raises. Never say or act in such a way as to belittle him. Belittling scratches off all previous respect on his score card.
Resources for Marriage relationships (affiliate links because I value their insight):
How do you see respect affecting your marriage? What resources have you found helpful in growing a strong marriage?
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